At The Grieving Grandma, we've got your back with a warm and friendly community to support you through tough times. Come hang out with others who get what you're going through and let's heal together! Love & Hugs,Tammy
Welcome to The Grieving Grandma — a space of comfort, care, and connection.
Here, your grief is seen, your story is heard, and your healing matters.
I’m Tammy, a grieving grandmother, certified death doula, and someone who truly understands the deep ache of loss. After the passing of my beloved grandson Eric, I found myself searching for meaning, peace, and a way to support others walking a similar path. This space was born from that journey. Through personal reflections, grief support services, legacy work, and community resources, I’m here to walk beside you — not to fix your pain, but to hold space for it with love and gentleness. Whether you’re grieving a loved one, navigating end-of-life care, or simply seeking understanding, you are welcome here.
“Guided by Love, Dedicated to Healing”
This space was born from love, loss, and the unshakable bond I carry with my grandson. In his short time here, he filled our lives with joy, laughter, and light — a presence that forever shaped our hearts.
When he left us, the ache was indescribable. It changed me in ways I could never have imagined, but it also became the beginning of my mission — to walk alongside others who know the weight of grief.
Through The Grieving Grandma, I hope to offer comfort, compassion, and connection to those navigating the hardest moments of their lives. This is more than a website; it is a space where grief is honored, stories are shared, and healing can gently unfold.
Eric's Scholarship Link
Compassionate services to support you through grief, remembrance, and healing.
One-on-One Grief Support
A safe, non-judgmental space to express your grief, process emotions, and receive gentle guidance. Whether you're freshly grieving or years into your journey, you are welcome here.
Legacy Work & Memory Preservation
Together, we’ll find meaningful ways to honor your loved one’s memory — through storytelling, memory boxes, letters, or rituals that reflect your love and connection.
Vigil & End-of-Life Planning
If you're supporting someone nearing the end of life, I can help create a sacred, peaceful experience that aligns with their wishes. This includes vigil planning, spiritual care, and legacy preparation.
Group Grief Circles (Coming Soon)
A supportive space for shared healing. These gentle group sessions allow you to connect with others walking similar paths, held with compassion and confidentiality.
Grief Companion Check-Ins
Short, ongoing support sessions designed for those who don’t want a full session but need a warm presence and grounding voice to walk with them week by week.
Healing Resources & Downloadable PDFs
If you're supporting someone nearing the end of life, I can help create a sacred, peaceful experience that aligns with their wishes. This includes vigil planning, spiritual care, and legacy preparation.
Download Healing Resources for Your Grief Journey
Share Your Story Invitation
This is a space where stories matter — not just mine, but yours too ~ if you feel ready, I invite you to share your own grief journey, memories, or reflections. Whether it’s a few words, a special memory, or your full story, your voice can bring comfort and connection to others walking a similar path. Together, we remind each other that we are not alone in this.
Transforming Grief Into Meaning
The Grieving Grandma was born from a place of deep love and unimaginable loss — a journey forever shaped by the memory of a cherished grandson. What began as one grandmother’s search for healing has grown into a mission to walk alongside others who carry the weight of grief.Through compassionate resources, supportive gatherings, and a community built on understanding, this space offers more than words — it offers presence, connection, and hope. Here, every story matters, every tear is honored, and every heart is reminded that out of sorrow, we can still build legacy, love, and gentle healing.
🌻 September 50k Walking Challenge
This month, we’re inviting you to take part in the September 50k Walking Challenge — a simple yet powerful way to honor lives gone too soon while taking steps toward healing.
By walking just 1.67 km (or 2,250 steps) a day, you’ll complete 50 km by the end of September. Each step is more than movement; it’s a reminder of resilience, love, and the importance of raising awareness for Infant and Pregnancy Loss.
Together, our steps create a path of remembrance, connection, and hope.
👉 Join the challenge, share your progress, and help spread awareness.
Inspiration, Support & Community@thegrievinggrandma
The Grieving Grandma’s Journal
Whether you have questions, need support, or just want to connect, I’m here to listen. This is a safe space for anyone navigating grief, loss, or seeking guidance. Fill out the form below, or reach out directly via email at telliot35@gmail.com or connect with me on social media. You are not alone — your voice matters here.
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Note:Grief brings many emotions, doubts, and “what ifs.” Here you’ll find thoughtful answers to some of the most common questions — offered with compassion and care. Grief is a natural response to loss and often comes in waves, while depression is more persistent and may require professional help. Both deserve compassion and support.
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Q: What is the difference between grief and depression?A: Grief is deeply personal, and everyone’s journey looks different. There’s no timeline or “correct” way to feel.
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Q: Is it normal to still feel grief years later?A: Yes. There’s no timeline for grief. It may rise and fall over months or years, and that’s completely natural.
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Q: What if I feel angry or guilty?A: These are normal grief emotions. Anger and guilt are part of processing loss, and they don’t mean you loved your person any less.
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Q: When should I seek extra support?A: If grief feels overwhelming, isolating, or prevents you from functioning in daily life, reaching out to a grief support group, counselor, or doula can help.
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Q: How do I talk to children about death?A: Be honest, simple, and gentle. Children need reassurance, love, and space to ask questions in their own way.
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Q: How can I honour my loved one’s memory?A: Memory rituals like writing letters, planting a tree, creating a memory box, or sharing stories can bring comfort and keep their legacy alive.
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Q: Do grief circles really help?A: Yes Being in a safe space with others who share similar experiences often helps you feel less alone and more supported.
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